Some things are more important

Father- Son

SON: “Daddy, may I ask you a question?”
DAD: “Yeah sure, what is it?”
SON: “Daddy, how much do you make an hour?”
DAD: “That’s none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?”
SON: “I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?”
DAD: “If you must know, I make $100 an hour.”
SON: “Oh! (With his head down).
SON: “Daddy, may I please borrow $50?”
The father was furious.
DAD: “If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior.”

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy’s questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think:
Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $ 50 and he really didn’t ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy’s room and opened the door.

DAD: “Are you asleep, son?”

SON: “No daddy, I’m awake”.
DAD: “I’ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It’s been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here’s the $50 you asked for.”

The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
SON: “Oh, thank you daddy!”
Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

DAD: “Why do you want more money if you already have some?”

SON: “Because I didn’t have enough, but now I do.

“Daddy, I have $100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.”
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness. It’s just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $100 worth of your time with someone you love? If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family and friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.

Some things are more important

 

Just like a bird

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A bird  sitting on a branch of a tree is not afraid by the shaking branch. Because the bird trust not on the branch but on his own wings. Beleive in yourself…

If you feel you are losing the ground under your feet , don’t sweat it. It’s ok because that ground isn’t your only foundation. You have ‘wings’you can ‘fly’. You are the one who has your own life in control. You can change the place you are if you feel like it isn’t you place. That’s the beauty of being in control over our ow body , mind and soul. It may look hard but always remember that every little step toward succes , progress , change .. is one step closer. It just takes one step at a time. And you might me a slow ‘stepper’ but eventualy you will get there..

– I’m like a bird 🙂 –

-S

For better or worse : friendship

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When a man and a women get married.They promise to stay togheter for better or worse. In sickness and in health. Till death do them part. That is true commitment and dedication! Sealed with a wedding ring. A soulmate , your other half. your love.You shall not run away when the times are getting worse and you shall not run away when there is sickness.

But what about friendship? Friendship never comes with a ceremony where you promise to stay loyal friends forever , for better or worse and in sickness or in health. There is no such thing!You can run , flee and never come back.. You can abondonn or forsake and never look back. You can stay in the better days and in health. And run away in sickness and the worse days. Yes you can, And yes it does happen!!And no ; there will be  no such thing ass a divorce. Nope , you will be friends that turned into strangers who share a couple of memories.

Just imagine a life without no friends but just family. Yes we all came alone on this earth and we will leave alone …The botom line is , all we have is ourselfs. Be your own best friend at first. And the more you love yourself , the more others will love you too. It’s what you radiate that you receive back.

But you might be in a situation that you are just unlucky to be surrounded by people who make you sad , unhappy , depressed and unworthy. That is a sign to stop  and leave that place. Move to a crowd / environment where you are surrounded with people that appericiate  you and love you for who you are, Because life is too short to be depressed and to stay stuck in sadness.

If you see yourself in a sad or bad situation and  you have seen that changing yourself didn’t  solve the problem  , then that means you ARE NOT the problem. And then it’s time to go your own way. For better or worse, choose to be better.Change your place in your life  and don’t mind the people who might get irritated by your personal dessicions. Because those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter. Radiate positieve energy and you will receive positieve energy back!!

-S

When you fall and then can’t pick your ‘happy’ off the ground.When the friends you thought you had haven’t stuck around.That’s when you feel my kind of love.

Celebrate life every single day of your life!!

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” Happy Birthday”

Hugs and kisses X .You will be pampered and praised , and showered with a lot of gifts!! You might even have a big birthday bash on those special years sweet 16 ,sweet 18, sweet 21 and so on… Yes you made it another year , you survived another year  , you have grown!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

But when we really think about it , what are we actually celebrating? Yes we are celebrating life! Because there are enough people who have heard they wouldn´t even make it to an certain age , and you just gained one. Some people might even have heard it is their last couple of weeks and you have just added on to your age. Some people might dream of going back to the day they where your age (because life was so good for them at that period).

Yes that alone is enough reason to celebrate! And not only on your birthday. But celebrate life every single day of your life. Because today you will be the youngest you have ever been and the oldest you will ever be. So why not sit back for a moment , smile , and be glad that you are here , and here is now and it’s al good. Because you are alive!!

Don’t only celebrate life on your birthday , celebrate life everyday!!

This being said … I would have to leave now! I don’t want to miss a moment of this celebration! Join me if you like , so we can celebrate togheter , the more the merrier!Celebration time come on !!

-S

Life = The greatest show on earth.

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Life is the greatest show on earth.
Starring: Us
We all know our beginning but the ending is still unknown.
Actually we don’t even have a director or storywriter. We have the pen and have to write our own story.
You can write a thriller , a story of a lifetime , or a horror movie.
You even decide your own soundtrack(mood) and your co-stars (friends).
You can decide to be the leadplayer or just another castmember..

Decide you own scenario’s , gray streets and rain overflowing the pavements or cherryblossom trees with birds flying high.Don’t you rather want to be a classic than another one hit wonder? Yes is tought so! So why don’t you start today with making your life the way YOU want it to be!! Because a year from now you will regret why you didn’t started today.”Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans” Don’t let it waste but just stop.And enjoy:)

-S