For better or worse : friendship


When a man and a women get married.They promise to stay togheter for better or worse. In sickness and in health. Till death do them part. That is true commitment and dedication! Sealed with a wedding ring. A soulmate , your other half. your love.You shall not run away when the times are getting worse and you shall not run away when there is sickness.

But what about friendship? Friendship never comes with a ceremony where you promise to stay loyal friends forever , for better or worse and in sickness or in health. There is no such thing!You can run , flee and never come back.. You can abondonn or forsake and never look back. You can stay in the better days and in health. And run away in sickness and the worse days. Yes you can, And yes it does happen!!And no ; there will be  no such thing ass a divorce. Nope , you will be friends that turned into strangers who share a couple of memories.

Just imagine a life without no friends but just family. Yes we all came alone on this earth and we will leave alone …The botom line is , all we have is ourselfs. Be your own best friend at first. And the more you love yourself , the more others will love you too. It’s what you radiate that you receive back.

But you might be in a situation that you are just unlucky to be surrounded by people who make you sad , unhappy , depressed and unworthy. That is a sign to stop  and leave that place. Move to a crowd / environment where you are surrounded with people that appericiate  you and love you for who you are, Because life is too short to be depressed and to stay stuck in sadness.

If you see yourself in a sad or bad situation and  you have seen that changing yourself didn’t  solve the problem  , then that means you ARE NOT the problem. And then it’s time to go your own way. For better or worse, choose to be better.Change your place in your life  and don’t mind the people who might get irritated by your personal dessicions. Because those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter. Radiate positieve energy and you will receive positieve energy back!!


When you fall and then can’t pick your ‘happy’ off the ground.When the friends you thought you had haven’t stuck around.That’s when you feel my kind of love.


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