For better or worse : friendship


When a man and a women get married.They promise to stay togheter for better or worse. In sickness and in health. Till death do them part. That is true commitment and dedication! Sealed with a wedding ring. A soulmate , your other half. your love.You shall not run away when the times are getting worse and you shall not run away when there is sickness.

But what about friendship? Friendship never comes with a ceremony where you promise to stay loyal friends forever , for better or worse and in sickness or in health. There is no such thing!You can run , flee and never come back.. You can abondonn or forsake and never look back. You can stay in the better days and in health. And run away in sickness and the worse days. Yes you can, And yes it does happen!!And no ; there will be  no such thing ass a divorce. Nope , you will be friends that turned into strangers who share a couple of memories.

Just imagine a life without no friends but just family. Yes we all came alone on this earth and we will leave alone …The botom line is , all we have is ourselfs. Be your own best friend at first. And the more you love yourself , the more others will love you too. It’s what you radiate that you receive back.

But you might be in a situation that you are just unlucky to be surrounded by people who make you sad , unhappy , depressed and unworthy. That is a sign to stop  and leave that place. Move to a crowd / environment where you are surrounded with people that appericiate  you and love you for who you are, Because life is too short to be depressed and to stay stuck in sadness.

If you see yourself in a sad or bad situation and  you have seen that changing yourself didn’t  solve the problem  , then that means you ARE NOT the problem. And then it’s time to go your own way. For better or worse, choose to be better.Change your place in your life  and don’t mind the people who might get irritated by your personal dessicions. Because those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter. Radiate positieve energy and you will receive positieve energy back!!


When you fall and then can’t pick your ‘happy’ off the ground.When the friends you thought you had haven’t stuck around.That’s when you feel my kind of love.


Celebrate life every single day of your life!!


” Happy Birthday”

Hugs and kisses X .You will be pampered and praised , and showered with a lot of gifts!! You might even have a big birthday bash on those special years sweet 16 ,sweet 18, sweet 21 and so on… Yes you made it another year , you survived another year  , you have grown!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

But when we really think about it , what are we actually celebrating? Yes we are celebrating life! Because there are enough people who have heard they wouldn´t even make it to an certain age , and you just gained one. Some people might even have heard it is their last couple of weeks and you have just added on to your age. Some people might dream of going back to the day they where your age (because life was so good for them at that period).

Yes that alone is enough reason to celebrate! And not only on your birthday. But celebrate life every single day of your life. Because today you will be the youngest you have ever been and the oldest you will ever be. So why not sit back for a moment , smile , and be glad that you are here , and here is now and it’s al good. Because you are alive!!

Don’t only celebrate life on your birthday , celebrate life everyday!!

This being said … I would have to leave now! I don’t want to miss a moment of this celebration! Join me if you like , so we can celebrate togheter , the more the merrier!Celebration time come on !!


Life = The greatest show on earth.


Life is the greatest show on earth.
Starring: Us
We all know our beginning but the ending is still unknown.
Actually we don’t even have a director or storywriter. We have the pen and have to write our own story.
You can write a thriller , a story of a lifetime , or a horror movie.
You even decide your own soundtrack(mood) and your co-stars (friends).
You can decide to be the leadplayer or just another castmember..

Decide you own scenario’s , gray streets and rain overflowing the pavements or cherryblossom trees with birds flying high.Don’t you rather want to be a classic than another one hit wonder? Yes is tought so! So why don’t you start today with making your life the way YOU want it to be!! Because a year from now you will regret why you didn’t started today.”Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans” Don’t let it waste but just stop.And enjoy:)


Questions asked to a black girl.


And this still hapens in the year of 2013.

What happend to our outlook?  This time today there are many cases where this story could just be the other way around.It’s not more that obvious that being black means you have less privileges or have a rough past.Let’s from now on whipe away our judgmental outlook  before we meet or speak to other people.

And this counts for everyone speaking to anyone from a diffrent ethnic background or culture. Sometimes it’s better to listen before you speak and know before you judge.

The left column of this drawing should be followed up.That is the way it should be. Speak with people from an opposite ethnicity true that perspective and you will see that you’ve made life acceptable. Not only for the other but also for yourself. Be the one to make a change and create a smile on faces 🙂


Unpleasant person


A 50- something year old white woman arrived at her seat on a crowded flight and immediately didn’t want the seat. The seat was next to a black man. Disgusted, the woman immediately summoned the flight attendant and demanded a new seat. The woman said “I cannot sit here next to this black man.” The fight attendant said “Let me see if I can find another seat.”

After checking, the flight attendant returned and stated “Ma’am, there are no more seats in economy, but I will check with the captain and see if there is something in first class.” About 10 minutes went by and the flight attendant returned and stated “The captain has confirmed that there are no more seats in economy, but there is one in first class. It is our company policy to never move a person from economy to first class, but being that it would be some sort of scandal to force a person to sit next to an UNPLEASANT person, the captain agreed to make the switch to first class.” Before the woman could say anything, the attendant gestured to the black man and said, “Therefore sir, if you would so kindly retrieve your personal items, we would like to move you to the comfort of first class as the captain doesn’t want you to sit next to an unpleasant person.” Passengers in the seats nearby began to applause while some gave a standing ovation.

Let’s end ignorance and racism. Be the one to create a smile on another persons face , not a tear or a frown.